Observing and Interacting with Families

          I’m currently conducting my field experience at a child care center. For Module 4, I had the opportunity to conduct my interviews with two parents. During my time there, I had the chance to interview a mother of a 4 year old (Parent A) and a mother of a 5 year old (Parent B) regarding social-emotional development. Both children have been attending this center since they were infants. I was able to ask both mothers to share with me their opinions on my area of interest. I asked the following questions regarding my topics: What are your thoughts on young children’s social-emotional development? How do you expect your child’s teachers to promote his/her social-emotional development? I was also able to observe their interactions with their children and with the teachers during pick-up time. 

          Throughout my observation and interviews, I was able to gain a number of insights regarding social-emotional development during the preschool years. One insight I gained is the importance that parents place on their children’s social-emotional development. Parent B stated, “It’s important for me to know that my son is learning how to play with other children, take turns, talk with his teachers and friends, participate during activities, and follow the rules of the classroom. Sometimes he can be a little shy and withdraw from the group. I want him to feel comfortable around others and gain social skills.” Both of the parents I interviewed place a high value on their children’s ability to be sociable, interact with the other children around them, be well-mannered, and express their ideas and feelings appropriately. A second insight I gained is how parents expect their child’s teachers to support their social-emotional development. Both of the parents expect the teachers to create a classroom environment that welcomes their children, treat them with care and respect, and create a variety of social learning opportunities. Parent A stated, “I expect my child’s teachers to make my child feel welcome and valued in their classroom, have activities that will teach him social skills, and always encourage him to express himself”. Teachers have the responsibility of creating social learning experiences that will develop social-emotional skills. Children greatly learn from their environment and the social interactions they have with the people around them. Teachers also serve as role models that show children how to treat others with respect, how to behave in a social context, and how to appropriately express feelings and ideas. Early childhood educators need to keep open communication with parents and always respect their needs, expectations, and concerns regarding their child’s development. Positive ongoing communication can help early childhood professionals support children and their families, provide the care they need, and connect them to resources/programs which can be of great assistance to them.